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Divya Hiremath's avatar

we are all a bunch of selfish bastards. And we love it here❤️

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Arya's avatar

You betcha. 😌🤘🏻

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Zo's avatar

Being a writer, I could resonate with each word that you've penned down. Your words got something refined about them which I love.

Keep writing, love!<3

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Arya's avatar

The jobless damsel actually replied?! Jk, thanks a lot, sweetheart. ❤️

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Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

I love love love this girl! Yes, writing is selfish and it's high time we stopped feeling guilty about it. Actually, everything we do is selfish to some extent isn't it? Running a business, wanting a family, looking for a job... everything.

Humans are selfish by default, but it needn't be a bad thing if it drives the world forward:)

At least this is what I tell myself when I write for pleasure lol

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Arya's avatar

Totally with you!

Gotta get over this mindset of thinking that value can be provided in only one or two ways, AND that doing something for the simple fun of it ain’t really selfish.

Anyway, even if I’m wrong, I’ll still choose to be a selfish bastard. ;)

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Mariia Fedoruk-Betschki's avatar

Uhhh the sparks I have reading this – it's so beautiful, Arya.

I second what Shruthi mentioned, that everything we do is selfish to some extent. Writing for the audience (here I think of writing that targets needs, e.g. in marketing or sales) also has an agenda – to build authority & trust and attract someone to their business.

To me, the key is whether it brings you joy. Be it fictional writing, or corporate writing – if this is something that fulfils you, lets your mind spark and run free with curious thoughts and ideas, do it and do it for yourself. It fuels you to express yourself more. And there will be always someone who relates and gets enticed by your thoughts and ideas that transcend any topics.

Thank you for this piece 🫶

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Arya's avatar

Ayee!! 🫶🏻

That’s true! I never thought of it like that. 🤔 I’m totally loving your take on this! It’s super interesting how I’m getting so many insights on this topic.

That’s such a comforting and liberating thought. I’m all for it. “And there will be always someone who relates and gets enticed by your thoughts and ideas” - this is immensely powerful too. Imma hold on to this perspective. Thank you. :)

I’m happy you liked it. ❤️

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